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It seems that having parties for children at home is an increasingly rare phenomenon these days. With such a vast selection of venues to choose from like theme pubs and restaurants, play zones, sports orientated venues etc. many parents opt to let someone else take the stress and strain and they just have to pick up the bill at the end. But a good old-fashioned party at home with games and party food can be great fun and more personal and welcoming, particularly for younger children.
   

Parents Online have produced a useful guide to the basics in "Throwing a Children's Party" which you can find in the Archive section under Activities. Here are a few more practical tips.

Ten Top Tips

  1. Think hard about how many children you'll be able to cope with. You'll need to consider not only how much space you have available, but also child to responsible adult ratios.
  2. Make nametags for each child - you could use decorated sticky labels. After all, you may know the majority of your child's friends' names, but your spouse and other helpers might not. It also helps the children to identify non-mutual friends. Stick the labels on the guests as they come in the door.
  3. Have an activity that the children can play while you're waiting for latecomers to arrive. This will help to settle them and keep them amused.
  4. Never rely on the weather being fine if you're planning to have your party in the garden! Make contingency plans. Remember you can always eat picnic style indoors on blankets if you haven't the space or the chairs to seat all the guests.
  5. When it comes to party games, don't insist that children take part in all of them if they really don't want too. Remember, they're here to enjoy themselves. Have a box of LEGO or some jigsaws on hand for those who'd rather not participate.
  6. Try and have the frenetic games at the beginning of the party, followed by a winding down period before they eat, and then some gentler games at the end. Try making party crowns to settle them down before the party food is served. It will give you a bit of free time to get the food together while they're doing the activity, and they'll have their own personalised party hat to wear and then take home.

    Party Crowns

      • Before the party, cut some lengths of card into strips about 10 cms wide and 60 cms long (long enough to go around the circumference of the child's head.) You may need to staple a couple of bits of card together to make it long enough.
      • Cut out small triangles or squares or a wavy line all along one of the long edges.
      • Before the food comes out give each child a strip of the card and supply a selection of coloured crayons and pens for them to decorate the plain card.
      • When they've finished, wrap the card around their head like a crown and staple to the required length.



















7. Where party food is concerned there probably isn't too much point slaving over a hot stove producing delicacies for small children. Save that for the dinner parties for grown ups. Stick to fairly safe finger foods like sausage rolls, pizzas, little sausages on sticks, chicken nuggets, cheese and pineapple, cherry tomatoes, cucumber, crisps, sandwiches and little cakes and biscuits. Don't make too many sandwiches - there always seem to be tons of them left over for some reason.

8. Wait until everyone has finished and you've cleared away before coming in with the cake and the candles.

9. Children these days will definitely expect party bags, but there's no need to spend a fortune on them.

10. Don't forget to make a list of who gave what present and send thank you notes.

   
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